Stop Asking

Okay, ladies I have a question for you. How many times have you been asked if you were pregnant!? However, you are not pregnant, and are not trying to pregnant. Your stomach fat just looks like you may perhaps have a little bump, but there is no baby in that bump! No matter how you try to hide it with granny panties, but it’s hard to feel confident in a sweater dress and leggings, when people are approaching you asking you when you are due!?

Now, I will be honest I am 5’3″ and I weigh 150-160. I was on the Keto diet for a few months. October was my birthday month and my wedding anniversary, so I have since gotten away from Keto. I am going to try to get back on it. I felt better on it, but since I have been away from it with thanksgiving and now Christmas approaching!

However, this is the first time I have been asked since being on the Keto diet, well off the keto diet, whatever. I have been asked before I even started the weight loss thought and it used to make me so sad and depressed. Now I laugh in their face and say no, I am not. The girl was embarrassed and apologized as she should. She was younger I cut her a break, but it happened again a few minutes later. This time with an older woman and I said, no I am not pregnant, wow you are the second person. I looked back at Drew, my husband and he looked at me. I could see the concern in his eyes. He knew I used to get upset. I wasn’t upset I was frustrated I was annoyed. I was over it. I am not fucking pregnant stop asking me. I have a stomach because I am trying to lose weight back off.

In the past, I have had it happen to me when I was on the treadmill. ON THE TREADMILL! I have had someone ask me at Walgreens, I was printing a picture out for Drew’s grandma and the woman approached Andrew and I said, “I hope your package comes before Christmas!” I said, “Excuse me?” and she pointed to my stomach. I said, “I am not pregnant.” She said, “oh I am sorry.” It happened on our Honeymoon in Jamaica. I was drinking my face off and someone on the resort said, “Are you expecting?” I said, “No.” He said, “Oh, you better check on that when you get home.” I said, “Thanks, but I am not.” I was so pissed.

So stop asking if we are pregnant. If you don’t know for sure, then don’t ask. If I haven’t send you an announcement, or posted on facebook, then don’t ask!


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